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So you're thinking about
Going Private?

There are many risks associated with going it alone, but the benefits can be terrific.

In brief:  The Downside
  • Your safety - is more at risk if you are working alone. Even if you think it's ok because you're only working during the day, think again! No matter how well you think you can look after yourself against an aggressive or violent man, why would you want to put yourself in a position where you have to fight in the first place?                                                                                                                    Some advice -  team up with another girl (or boy) and watch each others back.
  • Where to work - ideally you DON'T want to be working from your own home. It is important for your sanity to keep your home and work life separate. If you check out apartment rentals I'm sure you'll find a place to rent that is suitable for working out of, and if you've teamed up with another worker, the costs will be halved.  Another option is to rent motel rooms for only the days you're working, if you're only planning to be working 1 or 2 days a week. 
  • Advertising - going it alone also means you'll have to take care of gaining your own clientele. Depending on your preferred method, this can seem a little expensive, but remember, if you're looking to entertain quality clientele, you won't attract them with a cheap two line ad! The Internet  has opened up a whole realm of opportunities for you to advertise free of charge, and in my experience can work really well. There are a huge number of  places where you can easily build yourself a website for free, a good example is freewebs.com .  ( if you don't want to tackle this job yourself, get help from professionals, try  L.S. Design  who very kindly donated their advice and the webspace for this site, cheers guys :)
  • Managing Your Workspace - when you're working in a parlour, most things are taken care of  for you, such as: answering calls from clientele, ensuring that there are enough condoms, lubes, tissues, oils, powders, towels, sheets, coffee, tea, sugar....and the list goes on. If your working private you will need to make sure that you are always prepared for bookings when you get them. 
  • Income Instability - Private work isn't as regular as going to a parlour for definate shifts, and neither is your income. If you want the jobs, sometimes you'll have to alter your preferred times, especially if your best clients can only make it at short notice. At certain times of the year, you'll also notice a decline in calls. The slowest times for me have always been over the Christmas period, as people like to go away for the holidays, spend time with their families etc. This has always been great for me, because I have a family too, and constant work through the holiday period would have caused huge headaches. But if you've just started out and need to make money right away, that kind of situation can be very very frustrating.
  • Your Mighty Local Council - is not as mighty as it might seem. Yes, of course there are regulations to follow, but if you set yourself up correctly, you'll fall under their radar...... :) if you want more details regarding this, please contact me 
 In Brief:  The Upside

  • Choose your own hours - You won't be expected to turn up on time for long designated shifts. Working by appointment only means you only go to work when there's work there!
  • Your Choice - Only accept bookings from the people You want to
  • Healthier lifestyle - working privately can greatly minimise your social need to party with other girls
  • Higher income - Good clientele will pay more for a more private encounter, and you're not handing over up to 50% of your income to someone who doesn't deserve it.
  • Social Networking - You will be amazed at the people you may meet through your private clientele, because you're providing a one-on-one situation, your clients may also become your friends.....

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