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Tips for Clients:
Phone enquiries-
When calling a Parlour, asking the following questions will help you decide
whether it is worth a visit...

- The Prices for regular services (of course :)

- The Ladies that are available at the time, and if none sound like what you're looking for,
  ask what other Ladies are available on a different day...

- If you're looking for a particular Lady, or a Lady that will perform specific acts with you
  ask! (most Parlours, if they are well-run will know)

- Find out the prices for any "extra" services you're interested in
   (such as B&D, golden showers, anal, or theme-play)

- The opening hours, and the best time to call in
  (it it wise not to arrive just as the doors open, or in the "changeover hour", as some ladies
   do run a little late sometimes, and you might have to wait longer before meeting anyone)


- Ask if it is possible to make a definate time to arrive to meet the Lady(s) you are
  interested in

- Find out if the premises allows you to "mingle" with their ladies, or if you will just
  be asked to wait in a room to meet the Ladies individually. Some clients find waiting alone
  can makes them feel awkward, embarrassed and ready to run out the door!

- Ask about parking - if there are not suitable parking arrangements, you might want to
  arrive in a taxi instead. (when leaving,  just request reception to call a taxi to get
  you home again)


- Ask if they have a loyalty programme - quite a few Parlours will have a type of Membership,
  where once you reach a certain number of visit's, you get a discount,
  and some even provide a visit for free!


When Calling a Private Provider
Consider the following-

- Rule number 1 -  BE POLITE!
 
(an agressive or "abrupt" phone manner will result in being told she is not available to visit with you)

- If you're sending a txt message, DON'T just ask something like "so how much is it?"
  Tell the Lady your name, the area you're from, and ask her what would be the best time to
  call her for a chat. This will usually result in a favourable response :)
  (* If you can't afford the credit to make a call to speak to her, how do you think you'll be able to
        pay for her time?)


- Tell her a little about yourself; you're age, and if you're looking for a one-off visit
  while you're in the area, or would you like to meet with her regularly if compatible.
  (some ladies charge a lower rate for regular friends )

- Ask if she has a place where you can go to meet with her, or if she prefers to visit where
  you are.

- If you're interested in a full date - ask her what her favourite food or restaurant is,
  or the type of entertainment/activities she likes, so that you can make bookings that you'll
  BOTH be happy with!
  (most Ladies will prefer to go with you to places they normally wouldn't visit in their "personal" life :)


- It is also wise to ask her preferred days or times she is available, many
  private Ladies will NOT appreciate being asked "can I see you right now"

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Please remember that working girls are people too, with likes and dislikes just like you!

If you find that a particular Lady is not really doing it for you, it is much better to
be honest, and politely explain why, than to continue with a visit that will leave you
 both feeling bad.
*You never know, she might not  realise that something she is (or isn't) doing is
making you unhappy, and if you let her know, things may change....


Be respectful of her, and the service she is providing for you - if you treat her well,
 you'll find that she will respect you too!

Try not to be too demanding! - Asking nicely for her to do something you like is much
better than making her feel uncomfortable, and being told no.

If you find a special Lady that you visit with often, every now and then surprise her with a
small gift   (eg: flowers, chocolates or her favourite perfume)
Working Girls respond well to feeling special just like any other girls!

Try not to ask too much about her personal life - some girls will just tell you flatly that
they don't want to discuss it with you, and most will feel uncomfortable about being
asked at all.

Always let your Lady know if you have a serious medical condition,
(such as heart problems, diabetes or back injuries)
because if something does go wrong, she will be able to deal with the situation better, and quickly get you the help you need!



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